20-Month-Old Toddler: Your Little Rebel
How to get your 20-month-old toddler to say "yes" more often.
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Your little rebel
It goes without saying that patience can be critical to communicating with toddlers, particularly when you're negotiating with them and one of their favorite words is "no." Want to trick them into saying "yes" more often? Experts recommend a few simple strategies.
First up: no more bargaining with them as a means of cooperation. Instead, offer specific choices ("would you like to wear the red shoes or the green shoes?") in place of statements ("it's time to put your shoes on") or open questions ("can we put your shoes on now?")—and stick to those two options you've presented.
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Did you know?
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Editors' picks:
Toddler scooters
More than just a fun way to get around, these two- and three-wheel rides will help your energetic toddler build skills and confidence. (Just don’t forget a helmet.)
Bedtime books
Have “Goodnight, Moon” memorized—both of you? Wind down with new characters: sleepy, snuggly farm animals; a train that cruises towards dreamland; trucks that tuck in underneath a sky full of stars; and more.
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